>A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. >One day a small opening appeared, >he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours >as it struggled to force its body through that littlehole. >Then it seemed to stop making any progress. >It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could >and it could go no farther. >So the man decided to help the butterfly,he took a >pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of >the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. >But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. >The man continued to watch the butterfly because he >expected that, any moment, the wings would enlarge and >expand to be able to support the body, >which would contract in time. >Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the >rest of its life crawling around with >a swollen body and shriveled wings. >It never was able to fly. >What the man in his kindness and haste did not >understand was that restricting cocoon and >the struggle required for the butterfly to get >through the tiny opening were nature's way of forcing >fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so >that it would be ready for flight, once it achieved >its freedom from the cocoon. > >Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in >our life. If we went through our life without any obstacles, >it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what >we could have been. And we could never fly. >So have a nice day and struggle a little. >When you are under pressure and stress, >remember that you are a better person after you >have gone through it.